Everyday Sexism and Gender Stereotypes...

Welcome back to my blogs! These times are especially really hard for all of us, it’s difficult to put up to work but I try. In this blog, I particularly want to discuss two concepts that are both the cause and outcome of gender inequality; Gender stereotypes and sexism. Gender stereotypes are the beliefs people have about the distinct characteristics of males and females which are generally culturally specific and are sometimes hardcore deeply entrenched beliefs. Sexism, on the other hand, is the behavioral component of stereotypes. It means discriminating and having prejudiced behavior towards a person solely based on their sex. More often than not, it is women who face sexism on a day-to-day basis. Stereotypes work when making a judgment about others. For example- “Women are bad drivers” is a very widespread gender stereotype that exists. Thus, in a situation where there is a question of driving capabilities, women are looked down upon and become victims of many derogatory, sexual jokes. 

Sexism can be seen just about everywhere. The wage gap in corporate houses, hiring rates in businesses, in a more extreme sense, sexism breeds misogyny which is the hatred of women. The violence faced by women is the outcome of this misogyny and patriarchal mindsets that drive these ideologies. If I have to, I can think of many examples from my life reflecting these gender stereotypes and sexism. For instance, whenever I try to explain something really important (a scientific topic), my parents (unintentionally), don’t pay attention to me but whenever my brother is talking about the same or some other sci-fi topic, both of them listen with great intent. These small instances are indicative of the ingrained sexism in our daily lives. We, women, live through them. The other day, I went out with one of my male friends, and surprisingly the bill was handed over to my friend (when in reality, it was I who had to pay that day). The attendant (male) has this stereotype in his mind that it is always men who pay. 

The idea of “man-the provider” is very much a part of our psyche. We all have seen our fathers (mostly) raise us financially, take important decisions regarding finances and education, and are the alpha of the family. We rarely have seen our mothers voicing out their opinions on important matters. This blatant sexism breeding in households, offices, sectors, businesses, companies, jails, cafes, courtrooms, salons, virtually everywhere is an established encore in our lives. Gender stereotypes and sexism in daily lives hinder women’s development and put men and women in airtight compartments sucked out of any change whatsoever. 

One thing is for sure, do answer back. It’s always important to rebuke the other person and make the person realize that sticking to rotten gender roles would do them no good. Of course, I understand it’s a privilege to be able to speak but in doing so, we regain our position and respect ourselves more. Signing off to a better world with sexism being non-existent.

With Love,

Pragya Nolakha. :)